>>> Do those guys ever get laid???
Ahh killing me… I’ll be the exception that proves the rules :p

Out with the polo shirts and in with the button down ones, I have a few just did not wear them as frequently

Reading a book a seducing women, thought did not cross my mind before. Speaking about psychology, wonder how successful that relationship would be, but hey, me thinking getting laid for now :))
In my shopping cart at amazon.

I think I’ll pass on the discussion on the benefits of broccoli at the local vegetarian group. Most Indians are not vegetarians by choice rather by habit. And even getting laid does not beat a discussion on broccoli.

May I just say, that super smart Indian men are like this foreign sex god from overseas.

Anybody watch Heroes? I do and Dr. Suresh is sexy. Well, I’d do just about anyone one the show but I stand firm by the assertion that smart Indian guys are hot.

You should go speed dating not with getting a girl as the goal but just to practice eye contact and conversation. Maybe be up front and ask the ladies for their feedback?

Good luck!

Well, I do know a couple of very Indian friends (they’re so Indian that they’re from India) who are really cool and like getting laid all the time. Just try shaking off the whole computer geek thing and improving on simple social skills like eye contact and flirting for starters. One step at a time mate, one step at a time. (:

Well, I have a few comments. As someone who also still has my V-Card, I can relate (though TBK and Belle will be helping me with that soon enough). I also probably have mild Asperger Syndrome (I’ve never been officially diagnosed, but I did display all the symptoms). I have trained myself to get over a lot of things like the whole not looking people in the eye when talking to them. It’s harder than it sounds by the way. Anyway, on to the points I wanted to make.

First I hate to tell you this, but at least for your first time or until you gain some confidence you might want concentrate on women who are about your level in physical attractiveness. I haven’t seen you, so I don’t know if you are REALLY a 5-6, but I have a theory that people are able to get people who are as attractive as they think they are (if that makes any sense to you). Basically if you think you are a 5-6, even if you are really an 8, you are not going to be able to pick up on a woman who is an 8 because you won’t portray that confidence that women find oh so sexy. So my advice in that regard is either take a good look in the mirror and look for good qualities and find a way to truly boost your self-esteem/body-image, or lower your standards and find women who are on the same level as you think you are.